L.I.V.E. – Love Infinite, Vigorously Exercised

  • Insights from Pastor Blair on Theology and Psychology

    Exploring the Interface of Theology and Psychology: A Summary of the Interview with Pastor BlairInterviewer: Ze Selassie Questions: The interview with Pastor Blair provides an insightful exploration into the complex relationship between theology and psychology within the context of pastoral care. His responses reflect a thoughtful and biblically grounded approach to integrating psychological insight while…

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  • Embracing Joy and Purposeful Stillness

    In the rhythm of my daily life, I’ve learned to find comfort through faith, reflection, and connection. Scripture is my anchor—especially promises like those in Isaiah 30:15—which remind me that strength is found in quietness and trust. Writing is more than expression for me; it’s a path to clarity and healing, whether I’m crafting devotionals,…

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  • The Redemptive Power of Grief Work in Building Legacy

    I am most excited about the redemptive power of my journey—how every piece of my past, even the painful and broken parts, is being transformed into purpose. With my calling into Christian counseling, alongside the deep engagement with grief work, and a commitment to theological and psychological integration, I am being equipped by God to…

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  • Embracing Unity: The Power of Letting Go of Ego

    In the pursuit of harmony; whether in relationships, community, or spiritual life; I stay aware of letting go of the need to always be right. Clinging to the desire to win arguments, prove a point, or assert superiority often breeds tension and division. But when we release our grip on ego and pride, we create…

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  • Bridging Faith and Psychology: Insights for Counselors

    Questions at the Crossroads: The Care of Souls & Modern Psychotherapies – David Powlison Introduction David Powlison’s essay critically examines the intersection of modern psychotherapy and the biblical care of souls, primarily highlighting two positions: COMPIN (Comprehensive Internal biblical sufficiency) and VITEX (Vital External secular contribution). Powlison urges the church to reclaim its central role in soul…

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  • Grief and Hope: Navigating Through Mourning and Healing

    For years, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’s five stages of grief; denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance have shaped how we think about mourning. But real-life grief rarely fits into neat categories. Modern research shows that grief is not linear or universal; it is as unique as the person experiencing it. Some never feel anger, others never “accept”…

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  • Transforming Trials into Testimonies: A Spiritual Approach

    In John 9:1–3, Jesus corrects a common belief that suffering is always the result of sin, explaining that the blind man’s condition existed so that God’s works could be revealed. This challenges our instinct to ask, “What did I do wrong?” when hardship strikes. We live in a broken world where pain often seems random,…

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  • Romance and Spirituality: Reflecting Divine Love

    To be romantic is to intentionally pursue the heart of another with tenderness, creativity, and reverence. For me it is a passion reflecting the kind of love that God shows toward us. It’s more than flowers and words; it’s the desire to make someone feel seen, cherished, and safe. In a spiritual context, romance mirrors…

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  • Ways to Express Gratitude Effectively

    Gratitude can be expressed in words (like saying thank you or writing a note), through actions (helping, giving, or spending time), in writing (journals or letters), spiritually (through prayer or worship), and by simply being present and attentive. The key is to be sincere, specific, and intentional in how you show appreciation. Ze Selassie zelovesbible.blogspot.com…

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  • Healing and Growth Through Biblical Principles

    Journey to Wholeness: The Process of Growth and Change in the Kingdom of God is a comprehensive Christian guide to spiritual maturity, healing, and personal transformation. Dr. Stan E. DeKoven, who is both a minister and psychologist, draws from biblical teachings and psychological insights to present a structured process for believers to grow in Christ.…

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