• The Art of Presence: Supporting Grief with Compassionate Companionship

    Staying With the Sorrow: A Gentle Guide to Grief Companionship Excerpt: Grief rarely asks us for answers. It asks us for presence. The ministry is not to hurry people past their pain, but to sit with them long enough that hope can find its way back into the room. Why “companionship” and not “fixing” When…


  • Grief Care Strategies: Presence, Practice, and Praise

    When Grief Needs More Than Answers: A Pastoral Pathway of Presence, Practice, and Praise Grief doesn’t ask for quick fixes; it asks for faithful company. As pastoral caregivers and grief companions, we are invited to sit in sacred spaces where words can feel too small and silence feels heavy, but holy. The aim is not…


  • Supporting Grieving Children: A Compassionate Guide

    When Little Hearts Grieve: A Pastoral Guide to Gentle Companionship Grief doesn’t arrive with a map, it arrives with a person. And that person, whether three or thirty-three, needs presence more than perfection. As pastors, chaplains, counselors, and caring adults, we often meet grief in its most tender forms: a child who won’t sleep since…


  • Healing Through Forgiveness in Grief

    Forgiveness as a Healing Practice in Grief: A Pastoral Guide for Companionship and Care In seasons of loss, forgiveness can become a quiet doorway to healing. This pastoral guide explores grief companionship through four promises of forgiveness, practical steps for families, and a ministry-of-presence approach grounded in Scripture. When grief enters a home, it rarely…


  • Healing Hearts: A Guide for Pastoral Grief Support

    When Pastors Grieve: A Gentle Path for Grief Counseling and Grief Companionship A pastoral, research-informed guide to grief counseling and grief companionship; how churches can normalize lament, care for grieving hearts (including pastors), and cultivate sustainable rhythms of support and hope. Grief is not an interruption to ministry; it is the landscape we all eventually…


  • Compassionate Care for Grieving Seniors: Best Practices

    Elders, Loss, and Love: A Grief Companion’s Guide to Walking with Late-Life Sorrow (Not Away From It) A pastoral, research-informed guide to grief companionship with older adults covering integrity vs. despair, wisdom over productivity, Kübler-Ross’ insights, grief vs. mourning, and practical steps churches and families can use to offer sacred presence. Introduction: When Presence Becomes…


  • Midlife and the Ministry of Grief: Turning Loss into Legacy

    Middle adulthood (roughly 35–65) is often described as the “middle miles” of life; the stretch where the road is long, the scenery changes, and our pace naturally shifts. Children launch, parents age, careers plateau or pivot, bodies speak a little louder, and our calendars fill with milestones we never imagined would carry so much ache.…


  • Early Adulthood, Grief, and the Ministry of Companioning

    Early adulthood (roughly 19–35) is often framed as the decade of becoming; love, work, family, and calling. Yet for many, it’s also when grief arrives: miscarriage or infertility, divorce, job loss, disenchantment with career, the death of a spouse or friend. These losses don’t just hurt; they can unsettle intimacy, identity, and purpose. What changes…


  • When Adolescence Meets Grief: Companioning Identity in the Storm

    Grief doesn’t wait until adulthood to arrive. It often breaks into adolescence; the fragile, formative years when a young person is asking life’s biggest questions: Who am I? Where do I belong? What is my purpose? When loss collides with these questions, sorrow doesn’t just ache; it can unsettle identity, shake belonging, and confuse moral…


  • Understanding Grief Through Early Attachments

    The First Two Years: Trust, Attachment, and the Foundations of Grief Resilience Grief often reopens the earliest wounds of our lives. When we sit with someone in their sorrow, we are not only entering the space of their present loss but also the echoes of their earliest attachments. The first two years of life, as…